Theft of girls

I want to devote the last post to a serious topic - the theft of girls.

Some don’t admit that there are still cases of bride theft. There are still savages who want to get a girl without their will. They’ll meet somewhere, fall in love, and not reaching her heart, not agreeing with her relatives and friends, just grab like a bag of potatoes or sacrificial sheep and take them home.

What are they thinking? How do they want to live a whole life with a woman whom they made a wife by force? How are they not disgusted from the realization that they aren’t wanted and loved? What do they expect from a woman whom they don’t consider to be a man? After all, even a ram cannot be simply taken. And they want children from her? I wonder if they want their daughters to be stolen by savages in the future too. And you know what's scary? They want to.

Look at these relatives of the shameless groom. How they surround a young girl in a room and terrorize her mind: “Stay. Don’t leave. It will be a shame. Shame. Think about the parents. What will people say? Don’t cry, everything will be fine. Love one another.” And if a girl tries to scream and break out of this medieval prison with a TV, grandmother lays on the threshold and manipulates, yells: “Step over then! Come on, disrespect my gray-haired head! Spit on us!” And the girl gives up.

Do you know what is worse? It often happens that the relatives of the stolen seem to come for her, are outraged for an hour or two, drink well, and then they themselves persuade the girl to stay. They leave the one they were supposed to protect. Drunk and satisfied are leaving for their homes, instead of calling a police outfit, making a fuss and rescuing their native from captivity.

Girls, dear, hear. Run away from where you were taken by force. Don’t stay where you are being held without your will. Don’t agree to live with someone you don’t love. Don’t respect those who don’t respect you and lure you to the cattle, even if they creep in front of your feet and beg to stay.

And forget about common systems and conversations.

Expand the expanses.

And have the spiritual courage not to be where you don't want.

Life will end.

Very fast.

Fortune-tellers and believers in them

The next theme is about fortune-tellers and believers in them.

To begin with, no one knows the future. No way you can find out what will happen tomorrow. Only if it’s not a weather forecast, for example, where with the help of an approaching cyclone you can assess the likelihood of rain. But this is not an accurate prediction of fate, which fortune tellers promise you to do, but only a forecast. 

Not only science or, for example, atheism, but also such widespread religions as Islam, Christianity and Judaism are negatively related to various kinds of predictions and fortunetelling. Therefore, it’s ridiculous to see fortune-tellers using “Muslim” paraphernalia and reading the Quran over tarot cards.

Predictors are usually visited by those who believe in it and are simply naive people. Therefore, it is not surprising that they find confirmation in everything. Especially in general terms, with a vague meaning, without details. “Something bad will happen soon in your family.” What is the likelihood that something bad can happen in any family on any day: illness, accident, pipe break, etc.? 

One famous scientist conducted an experiment. He took a coin in his hand and asked half of the hall to make a guess and try to suggest that the eagle would drop, and the others so that the tails fell out. The eagle has fallen. So they continued until there was only one person who eight times guessed which side of the coin would fall out. Does this mean that he has superpowers?

So, by means of natural selection among a huge number of those who are addressing, her true fortune tellers remain with the fortuneteller. Which further will try to ignore her mistakes and each minor coincidence will elevate to the rank of a great prophecy.

Here and Now

Hey, my name is Aruzhan. Welcome to my blog! ♥

Today we will discuss about being here and now, at the moment.
Let's start!

Firstly, can you say about yourself that you live here and now? That the past is only memories for you, it doesn’t matter: good or bad, and the future is an incomprehensible mystery and an exciting unknown.

Here I can. True, sometimes I forget about it. But I always try to remind myself, singing the lines from the song: "There is only a moment between the past and the future. It's called life."Yes, damn it, this is the moment in which you are now, in which you are reading my words, in which you see, hear and smell, so it is called life.

When you fully understand and realize this, acknowledge that it should be so and nothing else, you will become the happiest of people.

When you sit with mom and dad at dinner, then be there - with mom and dad. Don’t think about work, about studying, about cars, about friends. Listen to what your father tells you about the incident at work. Enjoy tea or coffee that your mother pours with love and care. Enjoy the raspberry jam your grandmother sent you. And forget about everything.

When you meet your beloved and go to a restaurant or a movie with her, don’t think about secondary or maybe where you will go tomorrow, leave it for tomorrow. Now offer her some food, salad and lemonade with ice. And then think about what dessert to surprise her with. Give her a compliment, court her. Offer a walk in the park. Invite to the cinema. And don’t think about anything else. Stay here. Well, perhaps at the most important moment, you can think for a few minutes about something else.
And so in everything. Live this moment, this very minute. Stay here.